Paul Gade

Paul Eugene Gade was born on August 9, 1943 in East Chicago, Indiana and raised in Wisconsin. He was the third of six children, born to The Reverend Edward Gade, Jr. and Louise (Wunnenberg) Gade. Paul graduated from the University of Wisconsin, Stevens Point with a degree in English. He and his wife, Gayle, moved to Middle River, Minnesota where he taught high school English until he realized his true calling, to be a custom cabinet builder. Paul converted his garage into a shop and spent three decades building custom kitchens and numerous other custom projects. He retired after some health issues in 2009.

It was easy to see how Paul touched the lives of people. For years after he quit teaching, his former students would drop in to shoot the breeze. He could often be found shooting hoops or playing board games with the neighborhood kids, who affectionately called him “Big Guy”.

Paul never had a shortage of hobbies. He built model trains, rode motorcycle, and loved to fish. His thirst for knowledge and new skills stayed with him until the end. In the early 80s when home computers were just becoming a thing, he purchased a computer that you had to program yourself with the accompanying book of code. He wrote some simple games that were sold in the local Radio Shack, then wrote his own bookkeeping and cabinet design programs. At age 78, while living in Assisted Living, he purchased a 3D printer. He made several projects using public domain designs, and was in the process of learning how to program his own designs.

Paul also loved to share his knowledge and opinions. By his own admission, he liked a spirited debate (some would say argument) so much that he would proceed to present a point of view, even if he didn’t personally share the opinion.

Paul’s marriage ended in 1989. Paul spent some time trying to enjoy his new-found bachelorhood, but after time, loneliness and depression turned him into a bit of a hermit. In 2017 Paul encountered some life threatening health conditions that forced him to move to Assisted Living in Dilworth, MN. It was here that Paul was able to once again find joy. He participated in numerous activities, including painting, “grub club”, BINGO, and cardio drumming. Paul was touted one of the best recruiters for these activities, encouraging other residents to join. Paul truly loved his family of fellow residents and caregivers at Serenity Assisted Living, and stories told during his final days left no doubt that Paul was truly loved back and will be sorely missed.

A perfect storm of simultaneous health conditions took him from active and vibrant to hospital admission then hospice for end of life comfort care in less than two weeks. He peacefully took his last breath at age 79 with family by his side on September 4, 2022.

Paul was preceded in death by his parents and his sister, Eunice (Kenneth) Holgate.

Paul is survived by siblings Edward (Sandra) Gade of Oshkosh, WI, Dean (Joan) Gade of Ukiah, CA, Lois Hill of Appleton, WI, and Richard (Theresa) Gade of Plymouth, MN; two children Jennifer (Jeffrey) Hovde of Baudette, MN and Nathan (Cathy) Gade of Moorhead, MN; and four grandchildren who were the light of his life.

As discussed with Paul, no memorial service will be held.